15 Years and Still Getting It

Who ever said sex stops after marriage should reconsider that statement or perhaps have a word with my friend Sasha. She has been married for 15 years and is still enjoying nights full of pleasure with her husband.

So I asked her did she really think  women stop having sex after marriage? Is it a myth or the truth?

Sasha can’t imagine not having sex with her husband. She said maybe for some women the myth is true but she can’t understand why. I told her a lot of women say because of their jobs, children, and maintaining a household it’s hard to make time for sex. They are too exhausted.Her reply, “I have all of those things, been married for 15 years, and my sex life is still thriving.”  She said she looks forward to making love, having hot steamy sex, and totally being a super freak with her husband. Sex for her is a stress reliever. Once she gets a little nookie, she can conquer the world.

Another thing she said was  you have to keep it fresh. Don’t be afraid to try new things and be creative. She enjoys putting on a show for her husband and more importantly her husband enjoys the performance. She has a nice collection of lingerie, wigs, costumes, and stilettos.

She also said she takes full advantage when the children are not home. She moves her sexual escapades to various parts of the house. She said getting some good ass fantastic loving doesn’t have to be limited to the bedroom. Her house is filled with places to do the horizontal polka. She likes being the aggressor from time to time………well most of the time. Being the initiator is a great turn-on for most men. It makes for a hellacious orgasmic night of passion, fireworks, or perhaps the neighbors knowing more than just your name 😉

This conversation took place a couple of weeks ago. It was Sasha, two other women and me. I was the only single woman and I really enjoyed hearing what they had to say about sex after marriage. Especially Sasha!!! By the end of the conversation, she started having flashbacks of nights of ecstasy with her hubby.  She told us she had to leave. She and her husband were going to be home alone and she had to get her freak on! Too be honest, I think the other ladies went home and took advantage of their husbands in a kinky sexy kind of way. Perhaps E.L. James should write a book about Sasha’s sex life. Fifty Shades of Sasha 😉

According to this article, it isn’t a myth that women stop having sex after marriage.  One thing is for certain, there is always an outlier. Just look at Sasha. She has been married for 15 years and still getting it!

Her last words were………..if my husband cheats or has ever cheated, it’s not or wouldn’t be because he isn’t fulfilled sexually. She declares she brings her A game to the bedroom.

To all the married women……….Have you stopped having sex since being married? Are you still getting it in like Sasha? What are your thoughts?

To all the married men………..Are you in a sexless marriage or are you getting the good-good from your wife? Share your thoughts.

Single people you are more than welcome to chime in.



Posted on February 8, 2013, in Love & Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.

  1. After 37 years of marriage, to the same lady no less, it’s only the last four years that sex has gone south, along with my health. During the years I was trucking there wasn’t much opportunity but we made the most of what there was. Sex is to be enjoyed, however old you may be and however long you’ve been with your significent other.


  2. Thank you Harem’s Master for commenting. It’s great to hear from the men on this topic. Obviously you and your wife have been married along time and still enjoyed each other intimately. Your perspective is noted and well taken.


  3. Wonderful article! Sex has definately gone down in my house lately, but mainly due to other issues – we have a chronically ill child and the care and prognosis can bring on depression. My desire is still strong, but many times my wife’s depression prevents the culmination.

    I love your blog! I can’t wait to call you Doctor!


  4. Thank you for sharing EXMPCOACH………..That is totally understandable! It’s a good thing you are being patient and a caring husband.


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