Your Truth About Dating9-12-11

Hey Truthseeker,

Here is my truth about a liar story. I am having a hot and steamy fling with my boss. It’s has been going on since the beginning of the year. It’s a lot of fun but I think people at work are starting to notice. I don’t want that to happen. Oh by the way, my boss isn’t married. He’s divorced but he isn’t looking for anything serious and neither am I. I am really enjoying him but I don’t want this to affect the work environment. I’m starting to get weird stares from people. What should I do?

R Scott from Atlanta

Dear R Scott from Atlanta,

I love that you are having fun but it is tough to pull off those workplace romances. They can become very tricky. I have always been told “Don’t play where you get your pay”.  The good news is that your boss isn’t married….Whew!!!! The bad news is if people at work have noticed, then let the gossip begin. I don’t recommend workplace romance but you are already involved. I would say try to be as discreet as possible, watch where you go in public, watch the flirting in the office, don’t tell anyone, and don’t let it affect your work. You and your boss have been hanging out since the beginning of the year, that’s a little long for a fling. Be careful!

Truthseeker411

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Dear Truthseeker411,

I just have to share my truth about a liar story. Last fall I met this guy in the military. I went to visit him in January and we had a wonderful time. It was supposed to be a weekend trip but I got snowed in. My flight was cancelled. Anyway, the guy all of sudden started acting different. It was very awkward. I couldn’t wait ti get home. I was finally able to go home. Well once I got home I found out that the guy was married. he had gotten married 2 weeks prior to me coming to visit. His wife is also in the military and she was stationed somewhere else. I was so pissed with him. I confronted him and of course he tried to lie but I knew better. He told me to never call him again and that’s when I had to get my sweet little revenge. A few weeks later I told him I was pregnant. He started freaking out and saying it’s not mine and I can’t deal with this right now. I kept this going for months and he didn’t want anything part of this. He was so afraid his wife was going to find out. I was laughing on the inside. I know it was mean but I had to get him back. LOL I just had to share this story.

Yours truly,

Scandalous in MS

Dear Scandalous in MS,

You are too much for words! I don’t think I could do something like that even though the guy is a jerk. I can’t believe he was cheating on his wife 2 weeks after the wedding. I’m sure you scared him pretty good. Hopefully he will think twice about cheating again. I don’t condone or promote revenge but this was pretty damn funny.

Shaking my damn head,

Truthseeker411

Do you have any advice or comments for R Scott and Scandalous?

Your Truth About a Liar 8-5-11

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Dear Truthseeker411,

I have a truth about a liar story for you. I am pregnant and the guy that thinks he is the father isn’t. I told him I was pregnant and he just assumed he was the father. We dated for a little while and broke things off. I started hanging out with another guy and we were intimate. A few weeks later me and the other guy was intimate. I believe I was pregnant already. I was trying to tell both guys but my ex is really excited about being a father. The other guy doesn’t know yet. Either way it’s going to be drama.

Yours truly,
Scared from Alabama

Dear Scared from Alabama,
You are in a dilemma! The thing is there is no way around the truth. You are going to have to be honest with both men. They deserve to know. I am sure a DNA test is in order, so you may want to think about that. The sooner you tell the truth the better off you will be. Things like this never stay hidden. I hope this helps. Best of luck to you!
Truthseeker 411